Why Is It So Hard to Talk About Sex, Even With the Person I Married?

End the cycle of frustration and silence—find peace, clarity, and joy in your marriage.

How did your last conversation about sex go?

You tried to bring something up you want to change, but it turned into an argument like always...
You've told him a hundred times that you don't like it when he does that thing, but he did it again...
What conversation? We don't really talk about sex...

It's not your fault that talking about sex feels impossible

You love your husband, and you want your marriage to thrive, but the thought of talking about sex feels overwhelming.

It’s vulnerable, it’s scary, and it feels like one wrong word could lead to rejection or an argument.

You want to express your needs, your desires, your fears—but where do you even begin?

What would it feel like to finally be heard and understood?

Imagine a marriage where you...

Feel loved and cared for by your husband.
Feel confident sharing your likes and dislikes about sex without fear of judgment.
No longer dread conversations about intimacy but look forward to connecting deeply.
Feel peace and lightness in your marriage, not tension and frustration.
Look forward to sex—not out of obligation, but because it make you both feel loved.

Introducing:

Let's Talk About "It"

This course is your step-by-step guide to navigating the hardest conversations about sex with your husband. Whether you’ve been struggling for years or just don’t know how to start, this course will give you the tools to:

Open the lines of communication about sex in a way that feels safe and productive.
Express your needs and wants with confidence and clarity.
Work as a team to overcome challenges and build intimacy.
Heal old wounds and reconnect in a way that transforms your marriage.

What you'll learn:

How to Start the Conversation – No more awkward silences or arguments.
Learn how to approach your husband with love and positivity.
Expressing Your Needs – Discover what your needs are and how to share your desires and boundaries in a way that invites connection, not conflict.
Overcoming Shame and Fear – Unpack the fears holding you back and replace them with courage and confidence.
Building Connection Before Intimacy – Learn how to create emotional closeness that makes physical intimacy feel natural and joyful.
The 7 Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have About Sex – Step-by-step guidance for the conversations that will change everything.

This Isn’t a Quick Fix—It’s a Transformation

I’m not going to promise you an easy road. Healing this part of your marriage will take courage, effort, and vulnerability.

But I will promise you this: the hard work you put in will be effective.

This course will guide you every step of the way, helping you confront your fears and build a stronger, more intimate connection with your husband.

Imagine if...

You and your husband were finally on the same page about sex.

You could talk openly and honestly, without fear or shame.

You felt truly seen, heard, and loved in your marriage.

You can get there—and this course will show you how.

Hi I'm Ellen!

Sex was a huge hurdle my husband and I had to overcome early in our marriage, and we had no where to turn with the questions we had.

Now I create authentically Catholic resources for women on sex and intimacy rooted in Theology of the Body. I combine up to date sexology with church teaching to provide you with practical sex support that is 100% in line with the Catholic Church.

I want you to have an amazing marriage and an awesome sex life!

What are others saying?

"I have so much better of communication and I'm so much more comfortable with sex and the place it has in my life as a Catholic Woman" - Marie

"Because this course is Catholic, I knew I could trust it would not lead me away from church teaching but actually enlighten my understanding in a very safe way" - Anonymous participant

"I only wish I found this sooner.
Sex has been the absolute biggest struggle in my marriage, and Ellen honestly is providing life changing information. I have hope for the physical aspect in my marriage where for a long time I had none."

What are women saying?

“ This course explores everything and answers every question I ever thought of asking, and even questions I didn’t know to ask.

Having grown up in a highly saturated purity culture, I was too anxious to even explore the concept of an orgasm, and even felt dirty and selfish about it.

However, this course was a great source of healing, and restored the beauty and innocence that orgasm was always meant to have. very educational! This course was exactly exactly what I needed as a virgin prior to my first sexual encounter. It prepared me well!”

— Kathleen R.

“ I enjoyed this course I felt like it was really helpful, and that it will improve my marriage relationship and ability to increase my intimacy within my marriage.”

— Patricia C

“ I’m almost done and want to watch a second time but with my husband. I have found it super helpful so far, especially the things we wish our spouses knew but we don’t mention to avoid sounding like we want to control everything.”

— Anonymous

Here’s what you’ll get when you buy:

7 Comprehensive learning modules

Dive into a series of 18 videos across 7 thoughtfully designed modules that cover the foundations of faith-aligned intimacy and sexual pleasure, including practical insights and spiritual guidance.

Expert Guidance from Ellen Holloway

Ellen has guided dozens of women through difficulties with sexuality from a Catholic Foundation. She working toward completion of a certificate program in sex therapy and has studied Theology of the Body intensely and is graduating in 2025 with a Masters in Theology of the Body and the New Evangelization.

Transform your Bedroom

Experience a profound transformation in your approach to faith and intimacy, empowering you to embrace your sexuality, honor your faith, and embark on a path to deeper spiritual growth within the context of your intimate relationship.

Where can we safely look for this kind of information?

Finally, a safe and Catholic space for information about sex!

As a Catholic woman seeking to explore the realms of sexual pleasure and intimacy within the boundaries of your faith, you may have found yourself facing a significant challenge – the lack of morally licit and safe resources to turn to for guidance and information.

In today's digital age, information on sexuality is readily available, but much of it doesn't align with Catholic teachings or values. Many women find themselves hesitant to explore their own desires and pleasure due to the potential conflict between their faith and the information they come across. The question often arises: Where can a Catholic woman find trustworthy, faith-aligned guidance on this deeply personal topic?

Welcome to the Orgasm Course!

Get Let's Talk About "It" for only $49

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FAQs

How long do I have access?

Access doesn't expire. You'll be able to come back and review the lessons as many times as you need to!

Who is this course for?

This course is written for the married woman who is searching for solidly Catholic info about sexual pleasure and orgasm. If you're engaged, you're also welcome, but I would caution you that not everything in this course is appropriate until you're married. You know yourself best, do what is prudent for you!

Does the course content align with Catholic teaching?

Yes! Everything in this course is shared from an authentically Catholic foundation. I've done the hard work of sifting through secular resources that have some....not so good info in them. Here you'll find the good stuff and only the good stuff. I will never recommend practices contrary to Catholic teaching (i.e. masturbation or pornography)

What does this course cover?

The course covers everything from physical arousal and anatomy to mindset to the spiritual side of things to the relational aspect between husband and wife. This course is unique in its all encompassing approach that integrates both theology and up to date sexology.

Why should I purchase this course?

You deserve to feel the incredible and deeply unifying pleasure that is designed to accompany sex. If you’re not experiencing that within your marriage currently, I urge you to watch the content of this course and start working toward orgasm within your marriage. Also St. John Paul II called it a justice issue if the woman doesn’t receive orgasm, so you are justified in receiving this information!

What if I need more support after taking this course?

If after going through the modules you realize you really need some additional support, I'd love to chat with you about my one-on-one coaching program. Email [email protected] to get started!